Fancy That

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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Blah blah kink at pride discourse blah blah the BDSM community that I joined in 2010 used to team up with other BDSM communities to volunteer at the local pridefest to do security and distribute drinks and other tasks they were needed for. (They probably still do this, I moved far away)

The BDSM community I was in was teamed up with the local queer resource center (whose manager was a trans dominatrix in the local scene) and AIDS charity center and we regularly collected food for their pantries and helped assist at fundraising events for them. Leather communities and BDSM communities do this sort of thing all the time.

And sure, it's important to point out that "no kink at pride" can be boiled down to mean "no pride at all because all queer people are sex perverts according to society" but it's also important to acknowledge that the people keeping your queer resource centers going are often the people running events on safe knife play and rope suspension and hypnofisting and electrostimulation. Nobody is forcing you to participate in kink but show some fucking gratitude to the perverts in black leather for the hard work they do for YOU.